Today I had every intention of posting about Lake Tahoe and our 4th of July, (and I probably still will at some point today) but this morning I got up and just felt like talking to you guys. I loved the post I did yesterday because of the e-mails and comments I got. I love getting to know each of you better, and I like that you feel like you are getting to know me better too!
This morning I just wanted to talk about where I am in life-- living, friends, family, everything. Most everyone has picked up on the fact that for nearly the past two years, the husband and I have been traveling the country. We have lived in Amish country in the dead of winter where we spent a majority of our time building forts and welcomed Baby Bella into our lives. We did a few jobs within our home state of Michigan, and then made our first big drive to Colorado Springs last summer. I fell in love with hiking at places like the Punch Bowls here and got diagnosed with lupus. One of my all-time favorite pictures of Bella & I was taken on a trip to the Rocky Mountain National Forest (below).
After Colorado we headed back to Michigan to spend a few months with our families. That has really been the hardest part of this whole traveling journey. On the one hand, it is amazing to see the places we have seen and to have done all the things we have done but we miss out on family birthdays, get-togethers and seeing our nieces and nephews grow up. Because of this we attempted to "travel" within our home state so we could see everyone every few months. While in Michigan we celebrated one year of marriage and visited Niagara Falls in Canada. After Michigan, we headed down south to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Here we go to play in the Atlantic Ocean and found out Bella needed an expensive and invasive surgery to repair her kneecap. Rehab was terrible, but she was back on her feet by the time I hosted by first official Thanksgiving dinner as a wife. After Christmas we rang in the New Year and celebrated husband's 29th birthday. A few days later, with his job ending in 24 hours we got a call about a position in Beverly Hills, California. We weren't sure about it, but decided to take a huge leap of faith. We took the job on a Thursday evening, packed that night and left around 5am the next morning heading for LA. That coast to coast trip is one that I don't think either of us will forget for a very long time!
In LA I got to go to tv show tapings, eat at amazing restaurants, visit Disney and dip my feet in the Pacific Ocean. One of the coolest things that happened there was being invited to creator of the Bachelor/Bachelorette Mike Fleiss's home in Malibu and view the season finale of Ben's season with crew and cast...and even OWEN WILSON! I can still remember the moment when Owen Wilson walked into the party and I almost peed my pants. Seriously, talk about once in a lifetime! During this time I also shared our personal struggles from the months past and the outpouring of concern and love shown from the blog world was amazing. We also got the chance to drive over to Utah and experience the beauty that state has to offer. Our time in LA flew by and our next travel job would take us to northern california just outside of San Francisco.
Here we have seen the Golden Gate Bridge, ridden trolleys, eaten amazing seafood and been surrounded by good friends. I got to visit Facebook's headquarters and tour google, apple and might even get to check off instagram before we leave. I launched my photography business and have been having so much fun with that. Now here we are, with our time in California coming to an end in a short 17 days.
We will be heading back to Michigan where husband will work another "travel" job in his hometown and then we will begin looking for a permanent job. We are at the point where we have seen a lot and done even more. We have experienced oceans and mountains and deserts and everything in between. We have faced the challenges of marriage head on, without our families around and have had only each other to cling to. We've done some crazy things (skycoaster in Colorado, anyone?) and some practical things like pay off our credit cards completely.
But we are ready for what is next. Ready for a home, and to pick out furniture. Ready to mow lawns, and landscape yards. Ready for Bella to have a place to run around and dig holes, a place that I can unwrap and use several wedding gifts that we have only ever seen the day we opened them. We are ready for a permanent mailing address, doctors who know us by name and a routine. I am more than ready to expand our family and be there for our nephews and nieces Halloween parties, Christmas recitals and soccer games.
But, it is hard to say what these next few months hold. While our plan is to settle down and plant some permanent roots, life has a way of constantly shaking it up. Maybe we will get lucky and husband will find the perfect job and my business will take off. On the other hand we may get to go to Texas like we have wanted to, but no matter what I am so lucky that I have gotten to experience so much life with my husband. He is so special, and so sweet and I couldn't imagine doing it with anyone else.
So that is where we are for now.... maybe at the end of this year this blog will turn into talk of babies and interior decorating. Who knows. I am grateful to each and every one of you though, who go on this journey with me daily and are long distance friends. Blogging has been amazing, and I love reading back through our adventures and being able to remember moments that I would otherwise forget. So here is to the GOOD things about the blog community, and to even more ADVENTURES whatever that looks like, and to finding joy in all things every single day!
Over & Out,
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You are such a resilient and inspiring woman, and I can only hope I can become that strong. I admire your marriage and I wish you both the best of luck in every uncertainty to come.
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What a nice way to document your life together! May God continue to bless you and your husband. Despite where you are, it's definitely where he intended for you to be!
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Your pictures are so beautiful and you are so darn pretty!!
ReplyDeleteI love this. God will lead you in the direction you are supposed to go. I have crazy baby fever so I would not at all mind if the blog switched to babies and interior decorating at some point. I completely understand about wanting to be near your nieces and nephews. My nephew lives in Las Vegas (with my sister) and it's so difficult only seeing him once every couple months!
ReplyDeleteYou are an inspiration. You give me hope that someday I will be able to see the country while being in love, happy and also living my life exactly how I want to. This story is so beautiful and you are truly blessed. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best of luck in building your family, the road through infertility (I consider RPL infertility) is rough and can test your marriage in ways you never thought about. When you're finally pregnant with that take-home baby you will look back at this time you had with just you and your husband and be thankful for it. (Ok 5 weeks from baby and I am still not "thankful" for my miscarriage, but everyone insists that when you actually get YOUR baby you will be thankful for the miscarriage/s because otherwise you wouldn't have YOUR baby that you're holding in your arms...we shall see)
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I started trying while we were in Australia for 7 months, came home without our Australian souvenir that we were hoping for, but now after all the struggle and the miscarriage I am thankful that we didn't get pregnant then, it would have changed the whole experience and even though it was hard and I cried A LOT during the last 2 years while we struggled to build our family it seems that THIS was the way that building a family was supposed to be for us. Like God or the Universe or whoever was trying to tell us we had to settle down first before we could start a family.
Good luck with putting down "roots"!
You are such a wonderful writer and photographer. I am so inspired by your blog and I've just recently started blogging.
ReplyDeleteI can relate to you about missing events and get togethers of your family because you live away from them. I moved to IL 6 years ago from England to be with my husband, and it is so sad to miss my siblings grow up and graduate and miss all the moments that are important in their life. But it definitely makes me appreciate them more than I ever would if I saw them everyday, and keeping in touch is pretty easy. I hope that when you return home you cherish seeing your family more often :)
That was such an enjoyable, inspirational read. I loved reading your previous post, and I’m so happy you decided to share this post with us. I hope one day I get to travel and experience the world as much as you and your husband get to. Y’all look like such a cute, strong couple. Btw, Texas is amazing! Love, blake
ReplyDeleteI give you major kudos for being able to pick up and move as often as you do. I am too much of a homebody/nester to think o doing that. But was a great experience to have while you are both so young and able!
ReplyDeleteThis post was awesome. :) I I've been keeping up with your blog since y'all were in Myrtle Beach, but it's cool to read the grand summary all in one post.
ReplyDeleteOh Ashley I just love this and oh how I wish I had been blogging when you lived in Colorado Springs :) I love following your journey and I love what sweet and loving family you have with Jonathan and Bella! Can't wait to see where you go..
ReplyDeleteI am tearing up. I'm not sure why! Probably because 17 days from now is gonna be a hard day! I'm just so thrilled for you two, though. God is so good and I'm excited for you to put down some roots. (Especially cause that means maybe I can help you with some house stuff!!)
ReplyDeleteThank you for being so open and honest on your blog.
ReplyDeleteI am encouraged by you in so many ways. My husband just took a job where we will be traveling every 2 years and living far from family, I have a relapsing and chronic illness {that i don't talk about alot} that is similar to lupus.
I am thinking and praying for you and your husband!
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~Clara
So I have a confession to make. I started reading your blog when you were in Colorado Springs. I'm not sure how I found you, but at first I thought you were one of these prissy little girls who made their life out to be perfect. I have to admit, I'm always quick to judge. HOWEVER, after reading for a while, I feel silly thinking you were prissy. You are one of the sweetest, most open and big hearted people I know. I'm glad I stuck around and am happy to get to know you.
ReplyDeleteI can't wait to see what's next in your life! I know that you'll end up right where you need to be and will make the best out of every situation!! <3
What a journey you have both been on together and a wonderful one at that! I have loved following along on your journey and look forward to the next step!!
ReplyDeleteI think you are such a strong woman for picking up and moving your entire life every single time. There's that part of me that is jealous about all the adventures you get to have but then I can also understand how it can be exhausting and wanting to start your family and plant roots can really take the back burner with all the moving. I can't wait to see where you end up! Just because I know it will be exactly where you want to be. :]
ReplyDeleteJust stopped by from Lemons, Avocados, and the Bay. You have a lovely blog and beautiful pictures! Such an amazing talent you have! Try not to worry too much about what is to come...God has a plan for you and your husband!
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p.s. I'm a new follower!
It must be tough to always be on the move. My husband is starting a job that is going to be all travel and I'm a little concerned. I'm so encouraged that I never hear you complain. You always seem to handle life with such grace. It has been fun getting to know you.
ReplyDeleteI love this post and everything about it!!
ReplyDeleteI know how you feel about not being able to 'put down roots,' since my husband is in the navy. Although we have been able to stay in the same place for three years, we still weren't able to do some of the things that we would like to do, like start looking for a house. I couln't imagine having to move as often as you, but it is so awesome that you have been able to make so many memories in so many places! Honestly, your blog has inspired me to get up and make memories with my husband in San Diego while we can. A lot of times I will just want to let my fibro win and stay home, but your posts show me that you don't have to let a disease rule your life. I really really hope that in the coming months your blog will turn to talk of babies. I know that it is not always easy to think so, but maybe God has had a reason to make you wait so long. I'm going to throw something out there.. Have you had your hormone levels checked? My cousin was diagnosed with low progesterone, and after hearing about some of the symptoms, I did some research about how it relates to autoimmune disorders (and inability to sustain pregnancy.) Anyway, sending prayers and good thoughts your way!
ReplyDeleteAhh Ash, reading through this post, and then reading all of the linked posts, really made me happy for you, and sad for me to be losing you so soon! I have super loved getting to know you here in San Jose, and I am extremely excited for what the future holds for you. I hope we can stay close and visit even after you have moved back to MI! Your openness about your personal struggles, the highs and lows of life, and everything in between is so honest and real. I totally appreciate the peek into your life.
ReplyDeleteYou have done SO MUCH together in your first couple years of marriage! Seriously, this post gave me goosebumps! Those memories are going to be so wonderful to look back on! But I totally get wanting to settle down and start a family. :) I can't wait to read that either!
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What an awesome experience and opportunity y'all have had! But I can't imagine living so far from family :( props to you! I loved reading about your journey over the past few years!! Your photography is so beautiful! And you look gorgeous in your pic with Bella! Looking forward to seeing y'alls life unfold in a permanent place! :) have a wonderful weekend and last days in Cali! XO
ReplyDeleteThis was a great post and I enjoyed learning about you. Despite the struggles, you guys seem strong and resilient. All the traveling sounds so interesting!
ReplyDeleteGood luck with finally settling everything down!
ReplyDeleteYour an amazing soul Ashley & I hope the best in life for you, I'm also sad we didn't get to meet and that your leaving California sooner than I expected :( all in all I hope wherever you go, you overcome the unsettling battles.
ReplyDeletethat first picture of you is stunning!
ReplyDeleteI have been reading your blog for awhile now, and am so encouraged by it. You make me smile, I'm just a newlywed with a cat, Sterling that we just adore, trying to make my business grow. There is nothing better then having someone open the door to their life and welcome you in. Thank you! Wherever life takes you and your lil family, I am excited for you!
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Wow! I totally get what you are saying. For the last two years we have picked up and moved every 6 months for hubbie's job. I have loved every minute of it, and know that we have seen things that we would have never seen if it wasn't for his job, but at the same time I miss my family,and a permanent address, and for my kids to keep the friends that they make......yes please! Loved reading this! Thank you, and here's to your next adventure!
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Ashley, I have enjoyed reading your blog over the last couple of months. One of the first posts I remember reading was about your struggles with miscarriages. I felt for you at the time; it made me really appreciate you as both a blogger and as a person. Now, however, your post has taken on new meaning. My husband and I suffered the miscarriage of our first pregnancy last week at 8 weeks. We had just told our families and friends and are now having to go through the hard process of telling everyone about the loss. Looking back at your post yesterday, I feel like I literally went through almost the same exact experience as you did. The horrible emergency room, the awful news, the poking and prodding, the helpless doctors, the feelings of failure and inadequacy...all of it. While I am sad that we have both had to go through this now, I find SO much comfort in knowing that I am not alone and that I can get through this. God's timing is perfect and I am learning to trust Him in completely new ways. Thank you for being so open and honest. I am working up the courage to post about this experience myself, and though I don't feel ready to share yet, I know that one day I will. And hope to be able to help someone else who may need the reassurance that all will be well in the end. Thanks again!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful post. What a great way to recap the last few months of your life. Thank you for letting us be apart of it. Good luck with your move. As they always say home is where the heart is.
ReplyDeleteWhile I can't image how life has been for y'all I'm sure all the adventures and experiences have made it worth it. I've loved following your blog over these last few months. It's great to get to "know" other fellow bloggers/newlyweds. God totally has a plan for y'all and everything will work out according to His plan. Best of luck with the coming move. I'm sure you are thrilled to see your family soon! p.s. If you end up moving to Dallas, you'll have a blogging friend waiting for you.
ReplyDeleteJust wanted to let you know that I look forward to reading your blog every day. The way you write and talk about life is so intriguing and I love hearing about all of your adventures. You live such a vibrant and loving life and it inspires me to be the same! Thanks for being such a fantastic inspiration girl!
ReplyDeleteAlso, I love that picture of you and Bella, you look beautiful!
I loved reading this post! You have done a lot and have had many adventures, which is so cool! Your blog always has something so inspiring and interesting to read and I love that. I know I just recently found your blog and don't know too much about you, but I am glad I came across you!
ReplyDeleteYour pictures are always so beautiful, you are crazy talented!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful way to document your lives! That's kind of while I wanted to start a blog. To use as a special way to look back on my mid twenties and beyond. My prayers for you and your husband through your moves and your adventures and most of all through your struggles to grow your family. After two years of trying and a miscarriage under my belt it's something I understand all too well. <3
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you and your husband on your journey! Your pictures are beautiful!
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